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Oliver Buchannon
Chandrima | Soulitinerary

I study why humans behave the way they do. Then write about the patterns most people miss.

Some forms of independence are just unattended pain.

Apr 24, 2026

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5 min read

Some forms of independence are just unattended pain.

The people who seem the strongest are often the ones who were taught not to need too much.

Chandrima | Soulitinerary
Chandrima | Soulitinerary
The strange ache of becoming someone your younger self needed.

Apr 12, 2026

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10 min read

The strange ache of becoming someone your younger self needed.

There is pride in healing. There is grief in realizing how early you needed it.

Chandrima | Soulitinerary
Chandrima | Soulitinerary
A good daughter is not measured by how much she erases herself.

Apr 5, 2026

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7 min read

A good daughter is not measured by how much she erases herself.

There's a fine line between duty and responsibility.

Chandrima | Soulitinerary
Chandrima | Soulitinerary
If there is one thing you want to do for your loved ones - Heal Yourself.

Mar 30, 2026

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8 min read

If there is one thing you want to do for your loved ones - Heal Yourself.

Because unhealed pain has a radius.

Chandrima | Soulitinerary
Chandrima | Soulitinerary
The only way through sadness is to let yourself feel it.

Mar 26, 2026

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9 min read

The only way through sadness is to let yourself feel it.

And trust me, it is easier said than done.

Chandrima | Soulitinerary
Chandrima | Soulitinerary
The worst heartbreak is denial.

Mar 13, 2026

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8 min read

The worst heartbreak is denial.

Because the truth was never really hidden.

Chandrima | Soulitinerary
Chandrima | Soulitinerary
That Conversation Your Brain Won’t Let Go Of

Mar 8, 2026

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9 min read

That Conversation Your Brain Won’t Let Go Of

Why certain moments replay in your mind long after the day ends.

Chandrima | Soulitinerary
Chandrima | Soulitinerary
Before You Say Yes Again

Mar 5, 2026

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5 min read

Before You Say Yes Again

Try this 10-second capacity check.

Chandrima | Soulitinerary
Chandrima | Soulitinerary

Pause.

A letter for capable adults who want clarity before reaction.

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